Prince Harry's 40th birthday is approaching, and while many might expect a lavish celebration, it seems Meghan Markle has different plans for the occasion.
According to sources close to the couple, Meghan is curbing Harry's desire for a wild party, favoring a more low-key celebration that aligns with their family image and brand. Despite Harry's initial excitement about hosting a high-profile bash with friends back in the UK, Meghan is reportedly prioritizing their public image over a raucous celebration.
An insider reveals that Harry was eager to return to the UK and reconnect with his old friends for a memorable party. However, Meghan has firmly opposed this idea, insisting that it would be detrimental to their brand. The couple, who have been working hard to cultivate a sophisticated image, now seek to mingle with Hollywood and political elites rather than be seen indulging in wild partying in destinations like Mykonos. Harry's wish to reunite with his British pals for a significant celebration is now at odds with Meghan's vision of a controlled and image-conscious event.
The source adds that Harry is struggling with the idea of disappointing his friends, many of whom were looking forward to a big blowout. However, at this stage in his life, such behavior is difficult to justify. As a married father of two, Harry must balance his personal desires with his responsibilities. Meghan, on the other hand, is unlikely to be pleased if he shirks these responsibilities to relive his glory days. Additionally, there are security concerns that the couple cannot afford to ignore.
Since stepping down as working royals and relocating to the U.S. in 2020, they have been vocal about their safety concerns. Harry's ongoing dispute with the UK government over personal protection has only heightened their caution. Recently, Harry expressed fears about bringing Meghan back to the UK without adequate security due to the potential threat of attacks. He emphasized the dangers, stating that even a single individual acting on the hateful rhetoric could pose a real risk.
Meghan, too, has shared her anxieties about security, notably during her 2021 interview with Oprah Winfrey. She revealed her distress over the royal family's decision to remove Harry's security detail, stressing the need for safety in the face of relentless media scrutiny. Since their move to the U.S., Meghan has not returned to the UK, with her last visit being in September 2022 for charity events and the Queen's funeral. Harry, however, has made solo trips back, most recently in May for the Invictus Games and its 10-year anniversary.
For Harry's 40th birthday, plans have been adjusted to align with Meghan's preferences. Instead of a wild getaway, Harry is expected to celebrate at their Montecito home. The source notes that Meghan wants Harry to enjoy a pleasant gathering with close friends, possibly even securing an invitation to Oprah's afternoon tea. While Meghan is open to a night out in Hollywood at a private club, she is adamant about avoiding any hedonistic escapades. The couple is currently exploring options for a more subdued celebration. One possibility is hosting a gathering at the exclusive San Vicente Bungalows, known for its strict privacy measures. Alternatively, they might opt for a dinner party at their home or a favorite local spot, such as Lucky’s Steakhouse in Santa Barbara. The final decision will likely depend on who is willing to make the trip to join them.
Ultimately, it appears that Meghan's influence is guiding Harry toward a more mature and refined celebration. The couple's image and Meghan's preferences will play a significant role in shaping the final plans. The source concludes that Harry's wild party days are behind him, and Meghan would prefer to see him celebrate his milestone like an adult, rather than attempting to relive the past. In the end, it seems likely that Meghan's vision will prevail.
