Alec Baldwin recently honored the memory of his late father, Alexander Rae Baldwin II, marking 41 years since his passing.
The actor opened up about the deep sense of loss he continues to feel decades after his father’s death, just 12 days before what would have been his birthday in 1983. On Monday, Baldwin took to Instagram to share his thoughts in a candid video where he expressed the enduring impact of his father's absence. In the video, he acknowledged the difficulty of discussing such a painful topic, admitting, “I always feel inept because I can't think of things to say... and that's not true, I can think of things to say, but I guess it's kind of too painful to say them.” He added that, despite being relatively young when his father passed away, his influence remained a significant and formative part of his life.
Now 66 years old, Baldwin reflected on the passage of time and the bittersweet reality of having outlived his father, describing it as “horrifying.” He pondered, “I always wonder the same thing, which is what life would've been if my dad had been around longer. If he was alive today, he would be 96 years old. That would be a lot to ask, I guess, 96.”
In his heartfelt tribute, Baldwin also reflected on the role of fathers in their children's lives. He described them as figures who often remain in the background during one’s formative years, only for their words and wisdom to become more significant with time. He stated, “Dads are always standing in the wings for so much of your life when you're a kid, and then they become more... the things that they have to say or the things that they offer you as a parent are more relevant and more interesting as they get older.”
Baldwin concluded his emotional message by addressing his late father directly, saying, “So anyway, happy birthday to my dad. Happy birthday to my dad, wherever you are.” The video captured the bittersweet tone of a son who continues to grieve but also celebrates the lasting legacy his father left behind.
This tribute not only sheds light on the profound impact of losing a parent but also highlights Baldwin's enduring reverence for his father’s memory. For Baldwin, it’s a reminder of the lasting bond between a father and son, even when time and mortality create an unbridgeable distance.
