The audacity, the sheer nerve of this woman, never fails to leave me astonished.
Here she is, residing in her luxurious California mansion, having thrown the royal family under the bus time and again, and now, she dares to write to King Charles, demanding explanations about the rules that govern the monarchy. What makes this situation even more absurd is that she is comparing herself to Sarah Ferguson, the Duchess of York. Whether you like her or not, Fergie has always remained loyal to the royal family, standing by them through thick and thin. She has never gone on Oprah to tarnish the institution, nor has she produced a Netflix series portraying herself as a victim.
Fergie hasn’t written a tell-all book dishing out royal secrets. Yet, Meghan, who has done all these things, has the nerve to complain about Fergie being allowed to give interviews and promote books. Let's be honest here, folks—this reeks of classic narcissism. It’s like that family member who stirs up drama at every gathering, storms off, cuts all ties, and then complains when they’re not invited to Christmas dinner. That’s exactly what we’re dealing with here.
Think about it: Meghan and Harry chose to leave. They weren’t forced out. They made a decision that royal life wasn’t for them, and that’s their prerogative. However, you can’t have your cake and eat it too. You can’t trash the institution from across the pond and then demand the same privileges as those who are actively working to support the monarchy.
Let’s talk about the timing of this letter. It reportedly came after they had already done the Oprah interview, released their Netflix series, and Harry’s book, Spare. Imagine being King Charles—who has just lost his beloved mother, is navigating his new role as monarch, and is coping with his wife’s cancer diagnosis—and then this letter lands on his desk. It’s from his daughter-in-law, who has spent the last few years publicly criticizing everything he stands for. The contrast between Meghan’s behavior and how our beloved Princess Catherine has conducted herself couldn’t be more stark. Catherine, even while battling her own health issues, has remained a picture of grace, dignity, and unwavering dedication to her duties. She understood from the very start that being a part of the royal family means serving others above all else. She has never complained about different rules because she understands that with great privilege comes great responsibility.
And poor Prince William—watching his brother being manipulated away from his family must be heartbreaking. Remember when Harry was the cheeky, fun-loving prince, always by his big brother’s side, ready to do anything for him? Now, he can’t even visit his cancer-stricken father without asking for Meghan’s permission.
What truly gets under my skin is Meghan’s claim that she wasn’t prepared for royal life and that no one helped her. But let’s not forget that Catherine offered her help, Camilla extended her support, and even the Queen herself took Meghan under her wing, inviting her to a solo engagement shortly after the wedding. Yet, nothing was ever enough, was it? Speaking of help, let’s not ignore the army of staff who reportedly left due to Meghan’s behavior. These were experienced professionals who had served the royal family for years and knew exactly how to navigate royal protocol. But Meghan, it seems, believed she knew better than everyone else. Now, she’s questioning why there are different rules for her.
Well, let me explain something very simple: there are different rules because some people have proven themselves trustworthy, and others have not. Some understand that being royal is not about self-promotion or making millions from streaming deals. It’s about service, duty, and putting the institution above personal gain. Meghan’s complaint about rules is especially rich considering that she and Harry are out in America, using their royal titles to rake in money hand over fist, all while simultaneously trying to undermine the institution that gave them those very titles.
Now, let’s delve into these so-called different rules Meghan is complaining about. What exactly did she expect? To come in, ignore centuries of tradition and protocol, and have everything change to fit her Hollywood lifestyle? The royal family has survived for over a thousand years because of these traditions and protocols. They’re not just arbitrary rules; they are the framework that ensures the monarchy remains stable and relevant.
The level of ingratitude is truly staggering. Meghan was welcomed into one of the most prestigious families in the world. She had a lavish £32 million wedding, was given a beautiful home, titles, jewelry, staff—everything she could have wanted. But instead of being grateful, instead of trying to learn and adapt, she decided it wasn’t enough. And don’t even get me started on the way they’ve handled their children’s titles. One minute, they claim they don’t want their children burdened with royal titles. The next minute, they’re insisting on using “prince” and “princess” for Archie and Lilibet. The inconsistency is mind-boggling.
This letter to King Charles is just more proof of what many of us have suspected all along: Meghan never intended to be a working royal. She wanted the glamour, the titles, the prestige, but none of the responsibility that comes with it. She wanted to pick and choose which rules to follow and which traditions to respect. And then there’s the audacity to compare herself to Fergie. Sarah Ferguson, whatever her faults, has always maintained respect for the institution. Meghan doesn’t seem to grasp that trust has to be earned. The reason other family members have different rules is because they’ve proven themselves trustworthy through years of service. They understand the delicate balance between personal freedom and royal duty.
Let’s remember, the rules weren’t different just for Meghan. Every royal spouse has had to adapt and learn. Look at the Duchess of Edinburgh. She came from a PR background and had her own career, but she understood what was required of her as a royal wife. She adapted, she learned, and she earned the trust of the family. Now, she’s one of the most respected members of the royal family.
The timing of this letter leak is also telling. Just when the family is dealing with serious health issues and needs peace and privacy the most, this story magically emerges. It’s a pattern we’ve seen before: whenever the spotlight starts to dim on Harry and Meghan, something controversial always finds its way into the press.
And what really breaks my heart is thinking about how this must affect King Charles. Despite everything Meghan and Harry have done, despite all the hurtful accusations and public attacks, he still loves his son. He still included them in his coronation plans, still ensures their security when they’re in the UK. And how do they repay his kindness? With more demands, more complaints, and more drama.
What about the impact on the monarchy as an institution? William and Catherine are working tirelessly to modernize the monarchy while respecting its traditions. They’re showing how to bring the royal family into the 21st century without destroying its core values. Meanwhile, Harry and Meghan seem bent on causing as much damage as possible from their California compound. The contrast between how different members of the family handle their duties couldn’t be clearer.
Look at Princess Anne—no drama, no complaints, just quiet, dedicated service. Look at Sophie, who came from a professional background similar to Meghan’s, but adapted beautifully to royal life. These are the examples of how it should be done.
Now, let’s talk about King Charles’s response, or rather, his lack of response. That’s real class, isn’t it? Despite everything, he maintains his dignity, focusing on his duties and serving the people, even while dealing with his own health issues. That’s what true royalty looks like.
I know many of you are as frustrated as I am by all this constant drama. We all want to see the royal family united, working together for the good of the nation. But as long as certain people continue to put their own interests above everything else, I fear that won’t happen. What we can do is continue to support those who are actually doing the work—continue to show our love and appreciation for William and Catherine, for King Charles and Queen Camilla, for all the working royals who truly understand what service means.
