Prince Harry and Meghan Markle graced a reception hosted at the Defense Headquarters Officers' Mess in Abuja, where they paid homage to military families and the Widow Association on May 11th.
Amidst swirling reports suggesting King Charles missed an opportunity to reunite with his son during Harry's brief UK visit, the composed couple epitomized dignity as they stood for the rendition of "God Save The King." The Sussexes stood resolutely, gazing straight ahead, while the British national anthem reverberated through the venue. Military personnel paid their respects with salutes in the presence of Christopher Muza, the Chief of Defense Staff.
Amidst fan reactions, opinions varied regarding the supposedly awkward moment when Harry and Meghan stood for the UK national anthem. Some called for an end to the situation, arguing that Prince Harry no longer officially represents the United Kingdom or the crown. Another fan pointed out their lack of participation or acknowledgment, questioning why Nigeria would play the UK's national anthem for a private citizen who allegedly betrayed his country and the crown. The event also highlighted Harry's refusal to wear his father's coronation medal.
During the event, Harry and Meghan seemed to decline partaking in the offered food, adding an unusual twist to the proceedings. At one point, the lunch descended into chaos with a disco beat playing in the background, prompting customary dance. However, the royal couple declined the invitation to dance, displaying what some perceived as a lack of respect for local customs and traditions. Two ladies, dressed in vibrant traditional attire, attempted to engage Harry and Meghan in dance, but Harry instead engaged in conversation with a military gentleman. Meghan appeared visibly uncomfortable, potentially due to her perceived narcissistic tendencies and limitations.
Meghan's actions, particularly her refusal to participate in customary dances, despite claiming an affiliation with Nigeria, demonstrated a limited understanding and respect for Nigerian customs. Her focus seemed more centered on asserting control and drawing attention for personal gain rather than fostering genuine connections with Nigeria. Additionally, Meghan's choice of attire—a shoulderless St. Agnes full-length white dress—was deemed unsuitable for a Muslim country, showcasing a lack of awareness of cultural norms. While some may interpret her wardrobe choices as a feminist declaration, they clashed with the expectations of a semi-official visit, particularly one extended by the military.
In such scenarios, the primary guideline should be to honor the religious and cultural practices of the host nation. Alternatively, Meghan's wardrobe choices could be seen as an assertion of her rights as a woman to dress as she pleases. However, such notions, viewed as juvenile feminism, align with her usual approach, potentially overshadowing the significance of the event and hindering genuine diplomatic efforts.
