Prince Harry and Meghan Markle, the former royal couple, left the British monarchy behind, stepping into what many would call a new era of luxury and freedom.
However, rather than soaring above public scrutiny, they've found themselves in a fresh wave of controversy. Despite their ability to afford a luxurious lifestyle and a team of aides, they recently faced criticism for allegedly not extending that wealth to cover meals for their staff. According to a recent rumor circulating online, one of Meghan's favorite restaurants had to set boundaries with her. The management reportedly told her that if her team occupied tables at the establishment, she would need to pay for their meals. Following this, the couple’s entourage seemed to disappear from the dining scene, relegated instead to waiting outside the establishment. Many have interpreted this as a lack of basic courtesy and respect.
After leaving the royal family, one might expect Harry and Meghan to embrace a more considerate approach, particularly toward those who assist them daily. Yet, it seems they've fallen into the habit of making headlines for what many would describe as poor manners. For most, childhood teaches a simple principle: if there isn’t enough to share, it’s better not to indulge in front of others who might be left out. This approach, which fosters inclusiveness and kindness, seems to have eluded the couple.
Despite their status and significant earnings from media deals, book releases, and their charitable foundation, Archewell, Harry and Meghan have been criticized for perceived stinginess in day-to-day matters. Prince Harry, previously seen as somewhat frugal, has now gained a reputation as a “tightwad,” while Meghan’s public image also appears dented by such incidents. Some have questioned why the couple, who profess values of equality and generosity through their public work, would not show a similar generosity toward their own staff. Couldn’t they cover meals as a token of appreciation? Their reluctance to do so has left people wondering about the example they’re setting for their children. Meghan, often seen advocating for manners and kindness, may struggle to impart these values when her own actions sometimes appear to fall short.
Prince Harry, raised in a world where most expenses were covered for him, may not see the value in picking up a tab himself. This sense of entitlement, critics argue, could be at odds with the image of generosity and humility they often portray. The optics of the situation—Harry and Meghan enjoying a fine meal indoors while their security or assistants linger outside—could not be more striking. Not only is it impractical, as these staff members are employed for security and support, but it also suggests a disregard for the well-being of those working closest to them.
This ongoing debate about Harry and Meghan’s treatment of their team brings into focus the issue of respect and empathy. To many, the image of them dining lavishly while others stand by waiting reflects a disconnect from the ordinary struggles and realities of life outside the spotlight. While the public may still pay attention to their every move, this latest incident suggests a growing sense of disillusionment. In their quest to redefine their roles outside the monarchy, they may need to reflect on the values they wish to embody—both for their audience and for their own family.
