Prince William has recently been described in a rather surprising way, not as Kate Middleton’s husband but as an additional child she must manage.
Reports suggest that Kate often finds herself handling her husband’s moods and demands in a way similar to how she cares for their three children—Prince George, Princess Charlotte, and Prince Louis. This revelation comes from royal author Tom Quinn, whose latest book, Yes Ma’am: The Secret Life of Royal Servants, provides an inside look at the habits and behavior of the royal family, particularly those of Prince William.
According to the book, William is known to display occasional tantrums and frustrations when things are not done exactly to his liking. As the heir to the British throne, he has developed a strong preference for structure and order in his daily life. However, Kate is said to have mastered the art of diffusing these moments, just as she does with their young children. Royal staff members have even joked that she often treats William as her fourth child because of the way she handles his outbursts and expectations.
A staff member who has worked closely with the couple was quoted in the book, emphasizing the crucial role Kate plays in balancing William’s temperament. They noted that while William has been accustomed to a life where everything is done for him, Kate, who had a more grounded upbringing, brings a sense of calm and perspective to their household. She reportedly reassures and soothes him whenever he becomes impatient or irritated, reinforcing the idea that she plays a maternal role in their relationship.
One of William’s specific demands each night includes ensuring that his suits are pressed and laid out with careful consultation the evening before. His shoes must be polished to perfection, and his ties selected in advance. His routine also includes a meticulously timed bath, a ritual that, if disrupted, can reportedly lead to further frustration. This level of precision and expectation is not unique to William—King Charles is said to have similar tendencies, and both father and son have been described as quick to irritation if their routines are not adhered to with absolute accuracy.
An aide further explained that such behavior is common among those who have been raised with staff catering to their every need. Having never had to handle tasks such as ironing, polishing, or sewing themselves, they often lack awareness of the effort involved in these daily chores. This upbringing, the aide suggests, has contributed to their impatience and occasional displays of entitlement.
Ultimately, while Prince William is widely respected as a future king and devoted family man, these revelations paint a picture of a royal who, despite his position, still relies heavily on his wife’s support—not just as a partner, but in many ways, as a stabilizing force who helps him navigate the pressures and expectations that come with his role.
