During Meghan Markle's tenure as a member of the British royal family, her behavior became a subject of intense scrutiny and controversy, according to various reports.
An anonymous aide reportedly described Meghan as a "complete narcissist" and "sociopath," claiming she was "basically unhinged" and exhibited a pattern of bullying behavior toward palace staff. These serious allegations first came to light in Robert Lacey's 2020 book, Battle of Brothers, which explores the reported rift between Prince Harry and Prince William.
In the book, Lacey cites an unnamed palace source who asserted that while Meghan portrayed herself as a victim, she was, in fact, the bully. The source further claimed that people felt "run over" by her, viewing her as someone with a narcissistic and sociopathic disposition who was difficult to work with.
The timing of these allegations is particularly noteworthy, as they emerged just days before Meghan and Harry's explosive 2021 interview with Oprah Winfrey. During that interview, the couple made several damaging accusations against the royal family. This timing led to speculation that the allegations against Meghan were part of a calculated smear campaign designed to undermine her credibility before the interview aired.
According to some reports, Meghan's alleged mistreatment of staff was so severe that it led to the informal creation of a "Sussex Survivors' Club" among those who had worked for the couple. Jason Knauf, the former communications secretary to both the Cambridges and Sussexes, is said to have expressed his concerns about Meghan's behavior in an email to Prince William's private secretary, Simon Case. In this email, Knauf reportedly described Meghan's treatment of staff as "totally unacceptable" and claimed that she was always on the lookout for someone to "take down." He also stated that there had been numerous reports from witnesses regarding Meghan's unacceptable behavior.
These bullying allegations are particularly damaging in light of Meghan's public image as a champion of women's rights and a vocal advocate for mental health awareness. Meghan has previously spoken about the challenges she faced as a member of the royal family, including experiencing suicidal thoughts. However, the former royal aide's assessment paints a starkly different picture, portraying her as a manipulative and abusive individual who was more concerned with her image and personal agenda than the well-being of those around her.
In response to these accusations, the Sussexes have vehemently denied the bullying claims. A spokesperson for the couple described the allegations as a "calculated smear campaign" based on "misleading and harmful misinformation." The couple has accused the palace of orchestrating a campaign to discredit Meghan ahead of their tell-all interview with Oprah. Despite these denials, the allegations have continued to linger, casting a long shadow over Meghan's reputation. Some royal commentators and experts have weighed in on the controversy, with opinions divided. While some suggest that the claims of bullying and narcissistic behavior align with Meghan's public persona, others defend her, arguing that she is the victim of a concerted effort to discredit her.
Ultimately, the truth of these allegations may never be fully known, as the inner workings of the royal household are often shrouded in secrecy. However, the controversy has undoubtedly raised questions about the culture and power dynamics within the royal family and has left a lasting impact on Meghan's public image.
